repaying debts from the former relationship – for example, if you are paying a car loan for a car the receiving parent has kept.costs to support children who live with you if they have a disability or a long-term illness.the cost of keeping in regular contact with the child or children you pay child maintenance for – for example, the cost of fuel to travel between your home and the child’s home.These are called 'special expenses' and are for:
If you are a paying parent you can ask for certain expenses, which reduce your gross income, to be taken into account. With CMS here's list of special expenses you can claim, if your entitled to them: When a paying parent can apply for variation no need to discuss any money matters with ex and co.
stressed me out a lot while I was going through courts for child arrangements. after my marriage ended, her family started pestering me for money, asking for back-dated amounts. I ended up opening a CMS case for myself. Your advice is that is very understandable. What I am sick of though is having an agreement and now being rattled for more. I am not opposed to paying for my children and my now wife and I treat them no different to our own they get the expensive trainers, x-box x, live and game pass stuff etc. my ex raises a case what do I do then? continue to pay as I have done now whilst what ever process runs out or stop paying etc. I am sick of being bullied and in a no win situation.Īssuming I am contacted by the CSA i.e. To be honest the whole thing has brought me into such a dark place over the last years that I am at the point of just saying go to the CSA. greater or similarly be given a credit for overpaying?īasically I have paid an agreed sum for years and years but now that I am doing better for myself my ex now wants more money and is threatening that if I don't give in to her demands then she will contact CSA. Question: Irrespective of whether the amount I pay is greater or lesser than what the "calculator" says and given I can evidence the payment to my ex wife in the form of the ref against monies who I be asked to pay an arrears for what I could of paid based on earnings i.e. A figure that was agreed and slowly gone up to this figure. This not based on my income or the calculator. Now the agreement I have been paying is currently at £480 per month. Having recently moved house a little closer to my ex it all flamed up again. Me and my now wife see them every other weekend where they join our family of 4 girls so 6 in total. In addition I picked up what were jointly named debts and continued to pay them. I hit bad times professionally there after and there were times where I was out of work and continued to pay this over the course of the last 10years. I know it matters little but my wife left me for another chap. In the early part of this I paid too much and I reduced it. Now I separated from my then wife Oct 2012 We had an agreement and I paid a set figure. Appreciate I wont find answers here but may find advice and some empathy.
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